Every relationship I've ever had has been founded in lust and physical attraction. Around 2009, I went through a life change physically and spiritually. I wasn't happy with the person I was or the person I was becoming. Because of this I decided to be single and celibate until I meet the man that I'm supposed to marry.
I'm not sure whether I dreamed this or if I saw it somewhere on TV but I heard this question asked:Would you rather be called beautiful or sexy?
My answer: beautiful
Why?
Sexy, although still a compliment doesn't hold as much weight for me. When we say someone is sexy, we are basically saying we like the way they look and could see ourselves having sex with them. I mean "thank you." Depending on who the person is that is saying it, I probably feel the same way. But as I stated earlier that's not enough anymore.
Calling someone beautiful is a much more special compliment. Mainly because beauty or being beautiful is not just about looks. I mean there people who have a beautiful heart, beautiful spirit, beautiful laugh, beautiful way with children, a beautiful voice, beautiful way with words, etc. Beauty in this sense applies to anyone; man, woman, boy or girl. It's universal and grounded, which is why I prefer it over the term sexy. And I hope one day that'll meet a man who not only sees my beauty but allows me to see his as well.
Be Beautiful, Be Blessed
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